Consider these the first words I’ve put any intent behind this year. Look, I may not always show up on time, but I always show up. Happy New Year! Anyone else feeling extremely overwhelmed and on the brink of falling apart? I’m just really excited to find out what 2020 and the first week of…
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This Is Thirty-One!
Another ride around the sun. Here we are bebes, I’m another year older and I’d love to tell you that I’m feeling great about it. The thing is that with every year that passes, I find myself getting more and more depressed on the days leading up to my birthday. I’m sure the explanation has…
Immortalizing Your Trauma
Side note: I will be writing a separate review of the I May Destroy You series once the season is over. I just needed to discuss some things that have been keeping me up at night. As a writer, I know that most of my fiction work will end up being semi-autobiographical. It’s a fact…
Unpacking My Trauma One Song at a Time
Trigger warning: Child Molestation. Sexual Assault. Depending on when you started reading my work, you may or may not know that I used to do a segment on my site called “Music Monday”. Every Monday I would share my favorite music with all of you. I’ve never been very consistent on this site but I…
The Talk
No, not that one. A few years ago when I was feeling particularly frustrated by the school shootings and the lack of care from our government, I started venting to my friend. I was angry that I didn’t have the answers and much like today, I remember feeling extremely hopeless back then. My friend responded,…
All Black Lives Matter
I’ve been trying to get my thoughts on what’s been happening down on paper for a few days but every time I sit down to write, I find myself staring at a blank page four hours on end. Anybody else feel exhausted? Every single day we find ourselves with news about the end of yet,…
Pride Month 2020
I try to pretend that October is my favorite month. My mom, my nephew and I all have birthdays in October. Halloween is in October. The weather is amazing in October. Though really, I love June; I know you wouldn’t think it because I’ve been very loud about my disdain over summertime and heat, but…
Getting Through 2020 In One Piece
Being that May is Mental Health Awareness Month, I thought I would share some things that have been helping me get through the chaos that is 2020. (I know that the world is falling apart and racism continues to be rampant in America, but talking about frivolous things I’m enjoying is literally the only thing…
Falling in Love with my Brown Skin
People always ask: if you could go back and tell your younger-self something what would that be? I would go back and say, “I love your brown skin”. When I was in middle school, I very vividly remember the girls I used to hang out with getting in a circle and comparing the skin color…
Going Through Changes | A Love Letter To Friendship
*opens Spotify and plays “Changes” by Charles Bradley* So there I was sitting in Sociology 101, on my first week of College, and absolutely clueless. Clueless and distracted. I couldn’t tell you what I was distracted by, but I do know that when the doors of the classroom burst open I jumped from the noise….